ChatGPT's response transforms when given a 'counter-suggestion' prompt, leading to advanced interaction outcomes.
Choosing to venture into the world of AI chatbots is a path many of us walk every day, from brainstorming sessions to finding the perfect dinner recipe. Yet, one simple trick I've found helps me tackle those tough, maddening decisions that leave us tossing and turning at night - the "strike that, reverse it" approach.
Instead of relying on the conventional advice that forestalls our brave decisions, I've found great success in posing an intriguing question to my go-to chatbot: "What's the opposite of the advice you'd normally give me?" This simple prompt triggers thoughtful, unconventional guidance tailor-made for overcoming hesitation. You don't have to stick to ChatGPT; any chatbot you prefer will do the trick.
Embracing a fresh perspective: the flip side
Let's take the example of a car buying dilemma. You might have heard the usual advice: analyze costs, weigh your options, and weigh the urgency of the replacement. But try using the opposite advice prompt, and you'll get a response like: "Trade it in today. Don't worry about the budget; you deserve an upgrade. Life's short. Go for the car you truly want, impractical or not."
Although it's unlikely you'll dash straight to the dealership, this response may help you acknowledge the emotional side of the decision, beyond just the financial considerations. Perhaps you'll realize you've been prioritizing others' needs over your own satisfaction or safety. Alternatively, this counterintuitive approach may confirm that buying a new car isn't the best choice right now.
Finding what eludes you: reconnecting lost connections
I also relied on the "opposite advice" prompt when trying to reconnect with someone I'd fallen out with. Rather than asking how to become friends again, I decided to inquire about what not to do. The chatbot offered some striking suggestions, such as ignoring the person, assuming the worst, and rehashing every past mistake. Seeing the "wrong" path so clearly helped me understand the real reasons I wanted to reconnect - not to mend everything but to let go of resentment and possibly reopen the door. It gave me just enough clarity (and courage) to reach out, and surprisingly, she responded positively.
Changing your lens: an unconventional journey
Instead of debating the same worn-out trade-offs (cost vs. value, now vs. later), this prompt helps shift your perspective entirely, doing what often breaks the cycle of indecisiveness. The perspective shift that comes from using this prompt is what makes it a game-changer in just about any decision.
Why it shines: an innovative approach
Most AI responses are cautious and safe, following the script of practicality and predictability. However, when flipping the prompt on its head, you receive a counterweight, a fresh lens, and a way to break free from the script that's been repeating in your head. Here's why it has proven so effective:
- Unearthing hidden opportunities: By presenting a counterintuitive approach, you begin to explore opportunities you might have overlooked, ultimately leading you to more informed decisions.
- Discovering unconscious biases: These prompts expose hidden biases, such as the belief that one should always play it safe, even if it comes at a cost.
- Translating AI into a brainstorming partner: Rather than acting as a polite echo chamber, the opposite advice prompt turns AI into a thoughtful conversation partner, boosting your confidence in your decisions and breaking the cycle of overthinking.
To try it yourself, simply open up your preferred chatbot, like ChatGPT, Claude, or another, and type in: "Give me the opposite of your usual advice about [insert your challenge here]." Some example prompts for other scenarios include:
- "Give me the opposite of your usual advice about switching careers."
- "What's the opposite advice you'd give someone navigating a creative rut?"
- "What would you not suggest for someone struggling to say no?"
A final thought
This unconventional prompt works by presenting the opposite laid out in front of you. From there, you can identify what drives your indecision, challenge your assumptions, and surface hidden fears. Changing your perspective often points you toward a clearer path.
Sometimes the wisest move isn't hearing what an AI advises; it's the realization of what you want after considering the opposite. Give it a try, and enjoy your newfound insights and bold decisions.
Technology and artificial-intelligence, when combined in AI chatbots, can provide unconventional guidance to tackle complicated decisions. For instance, asking a chatbot for the opposite advice can offer unique insights, such as in car buying decisions where the chatbot might suggest impulsively trading in a car, disregarding the budget, and going for the desired car, even if it's impractical. This counterintuitive approach can help reconsider personal needs, prejudices, and reshape the decision-making process.
